You know one of the most overlooked concepts in leadership? Trust. People want to trust who theyâre following. They wonât follow long if they donât. You might think thatâs a given; And it might be, but I donât think it should be.Â
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Most of us think of trust very little if we do at all. Or we assume we have it because of the position we hold. But we all know that holding a position doesnât mean you hold peopleâs trust. That takes work. As leaders, we ought to keep that in mind.Â
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Although it does take work, it doesnât have to be difficult. Trust comes from relationship. It comes from getting to know people, and maybe more importantly, letting them get to know you.Â
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Have you ever wondered why people love your pastor so much and follow him so easily? It might be because heâs a great leader, but itâs more likely that people feel like they can relate to him.Â
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When he preaches, he is not only getting in front of everyone so they see his face and using a microphone so they hear his voice â you do both of those things every week too â heâs also sharing about his life. He uses sermon illustrations about his kids and talks about his wife. You get a glimpse into his life. That builds relationship. It builds trust.Â
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As worship leaders, we need to learn to do the same thing. Knowing that you wear skinny jeans and like to sing isnât enough. Give people a glimpse of your heart as their leader.
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Hereâs an easy way to start: Choose a song that means something to you personally to lead in worship next week. Before you lead it, tell your church why it means so much to you. Itâs that simple. If you sing originals at your church, even better! Talk about the story behind the song â why you wrote it.
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You can also do this by intentionally reaching out to people in your church. Ask people to coffee, join a small group or hang out in the lobby. Let people know you want to know them. Remember, youâre the leader. Itâs on you to take the first step.
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You might not see results from this right away, but over time youâll begin to see people lean in when you speak. Youâll begin to see people try new things when you instruct it. Folks will begin to understand youâre more than a guy with a guitar. Youâre a leader. Youâre a pastor. Youâre a shepherd. And they can trust you because they know you.Â